Hello 2011 !

Wonder how I celebrate my x'mas eve?

nah, nothing much

Attended a wedding dinner with the boyfie :)

(make up of the day, tried something new)

Love does not consist in gazing at each other, 

but in looking outward together in the same direction.

Anyway, 2010 is going to end soon

Do you ever think about what you've gained for 2010?

and what you hope to get from 2011?

2010---

*supposed to start study this year, but end up with nothing -.-

*work, doing something I don't really interested on but I have no choice, daddy is tired enough

*hobby, modeling. Trying hard but the result is....erm....nah, I think it's too early to say give up right, so yea, all the best daphne!

*relationship, I experienced something out of my expectation, I learned I gained and now, I found the ONE :')

2011---I hope....

*to have a rabbit as my pet (dreaming la you! ): )*

*to start my study, design or make up or whatever, just wanna start to learn something new

*to have an I-phone :P

*to loose some weight more

....and all the best for the rest! Can't list down one by one neh :)

#daphne#

A lesson

I've learned a lesson

sometime, you just don't know why you're feeling insecure

but this will never ever happen on me again, NO MORE!!

it's funny, I used to advice my friends not to think too much and do not over sensitive

but now I was the one who make the same mistake

I am good, I am pretty, I deserve to have the most special one which I already have :)

so yea, what for I have to worry so much for something that will never happen?

I just did a big mistake which is not easy to be forgiven

but I know, he will forgive me soon or later

Have faith on him just like how I had faith on him at the beginning

Should never make him down again and again as in he never make me down :)

I know I know, it's too late to apologize, so yea

I will proof it to you ♥

*daphne*

I found YOU

Let's have a kit-kat, and take a break :D

*yea yea yea, I know it's fattening but don't care la, stomachache is killing me -.-*

... ... never write an essay or a proper english sentence for too long already

my brain can't function well everytime when I try to tell a story

even now, am writing a broken english, sobs

oh my A's english, please come back! :(

I should start reading now before it's too late, my college life is coming soon

Just another 3 months to go, pray bersungguh-sunguh that my dad is able to afford my study fees next year *finger cross*

back to life,

work-sleep-online-dating-work-sleep-online-dating

and people who always follow my blog will know that I don't use to share my love life over here

so basically, I don't have much things to update since I spend most of my free time with him besides working

don't complain please, am trying hard to find something useful to share, I really do :)

but for today, I try to be nice to all my readers

Am going to blog about my love this time, exciting???

nah, just a little bit, don't get too high yet, LOL

once upon a time, we were a complete stranger to each other

Fate brought us together

but actually what he has done for me is the biggest reason why we'll get in love so much like now

Unpleasant things is normal among couples, we argued,

however we learn something new and understand each other more and more from the mistakes. :)

besides, I always remind myself that the same mistake only allow to happen once but not twice and so on

oh well, he is very strict to me sometime but I know he spoils me with his own way

no one is perfect but he is so amazing for me :)

From the incident which happened 2 days ago, 

I just realize what is the exact feeling of "I found you" for the first time

you won't know how it feels until you met the right one and fully trust on him

(my favourite make up currently-only eyeliner)

*daphne*

Relationship

Currently my life is bored to the max

I have nothing to update hence, I always find something meaningful to share over here :)

Here's a meaningful article about relationship

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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. 
In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. 
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. 
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. 
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. 
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, 
you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' 
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. 
This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. 
Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; 
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. 
It'll NEVERjust happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. 
it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. 
You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. 

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, 
certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. 
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

Remember always this:
'God determines who walks into your life.It is up to you to decide who you let to walk away,
who you let to stay, and who you refuse to let go.'


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Well, I think most of you know all the statements mentioned above

but how many of you can really achieve that?

and how many of you will really take note of that and apply it into your relationship?

I will :) and am doing it  ♥

*daphne*

Is it true?

追求的时候当人家是宝，永远保持着最好的一面... 

刚到手的时候疼人家到骨子里去，每天给她打十几个电话，发几十条信息，

她说什么你都铭记在心，想吃什么、想买什么、想去哪里你都会尽全力去满足，温柔体贴无微不至，

巴不得二十四个小时都能跟她呆在一起；一开始总是包容的，

就算她的生活习惯与你不同也会努力的调试配合，一切一切都是美好的... 
　　 
　　

久了，腻了！每天别说几十个电话，就连1个电话都懒得打，

打电话时只说具体情况，把那些觉得无关要紧的“情趣”话都省了；

信息就更不用说了，她发10条你回有一半你就觉得你回的已经够多了，就连她打电话给你你都觉得她啰嗦！ 

　　 

你不会再为她想吃早点而早早起床，你不会再为她排队买她想要东西，

你不会专门请假带她去她想去的地方，你会觉得她什么事都依赖着你，让你觉得她麻烦事特多！ 
　　 

接着你会发现她的缺点越来越多，她的优点快被她的缺点掩盖，你快忍无可忍！ 

男人，你记不记得你曾经说过：“我永远都会对你这么好，一辈子都这样爱着你宠着你！” 
　　 
不是她麻烦事特多，是你一开始就说得做得太到位，才会让她依赖上你！ 
　　 
你记不记得你曾经说过：“不管多晚，睡不着都可以打电话给我，我的手机24小时都为你开机！” 
　　 
那你又嫌她不体贴，白天工作的时候打电话打扰到你，辛苦了一天晚上要睡觉了她还缠着你不肯挂线。

是谁让她养成何时何地想打电话给你就打电话给你的习惯？ 
　　 

她无理取闹 
　　 
那是因为从某一个时间段你的态度变了，你开始冷落她了；让她觉得没了安全感

不是她不信任你，不给你空间，而是她爱你，在乎你，用尽所有时间去关心你，

你的生活细微改变都牵扯着她的情绪！ 
　　 

她脾气不好 
　　 
那是因为她有很多时候知道了很多事情，但你不说，她都选择沉默，在一直沉默；

积压到一定的时间她们就会爆发心中的所有怨气；

要知道，这一些都不是她脾气不好，是你不够细心发觉，她们是一直积压下来的！ 

其实女人要的很简单，只想要一个爱自己男人就够了... 

爱情，就像煮粥！滚烫的时候加点配料它就是够火候又有滋有味的；

等到忘记关火煮焦了的时候，你闻都不想闻它甚至你连锅都想把它扔了... 
　　 
看好你的火吧.. 

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Be more understanding, control the temper and don't be so emotional

Let's think about the sweetest thing that he did for you,

how much he pampers you

Anger makes people lose their mind easily

So don't waste your time and energy to argue with the love one

Because you'll regret after that, for sure

*daphne*